I can still remember a classmate in my college who was very popular. I feel very jealous of him. He was not a topper of a class. He was not very good looking nor a good sports person. But everyone likes him, including teachers.
The reason behind it was that he knew how to communicate with people. He talks from everyone so well that they like him very much. He was aware every time that what to talk and how long to speak without any hesitation.
At that point, I thought oh it’s not a big deal. I don’t need to impress anyone. I come college to improve myself not to make friends. But the reality was that I feel awkward to talk anyone else except my buddies. I just give excuses by making a bunch of reasons, which was not right.
It is one of the most valuable skills which anyone should have. Don’t you think it one of the biggest part of our life?
But sadly our education system is helping us to develop it. In fact, we also forget it. We are so busy in the Internet and social media that we stopped spending quality time with friends.
The reality is that for a personal and professional life our words impact a lot. Words have tremendous power, and we can achieve anything. We can crack big contracts, persuade people. We can win hearts and attract anyone.
I am going to share you few techniques which will help you to talk.
Communication Techniques to talk effectively
1.A flooding smile
William was a stalk broker. Since 18 years he was married. But he hardly talked and laughed with his wife. He was not happy with his life. His relationship was not healthy for anyone in his office. He never talks with anyone without any reason nor anyone tries to talk with him. He was getting upset with his life. To make his life better, he took membership in Dean Carnot’s club.
Club give him a simple task to make things better. Task was to smile at least one time while looking at someone. He considered it seriously and started applying in his life.
Next day, he woke up on a routine like daily. But before taking breakfast, he passed a smile to his wife and said good morning. His wife was shocked that what makes him so good. William told her wife that don’t be panic, this is going to happen regularly. Her wife was feeling peculiar and good also.
While going to his office, he starts giving a smile to everyone who comes in his path. Paperman, Driver, Liftman, Colleges, Boss, etc. He noticed one thing that to whom he passed a smile; he got the same from it. That makes William feels better.
Soon his colleagues start to engage in talks with him. People were happy whenever they see him. They told him that they consider him a selfish and stubborn. But they were wrong.
Such a small lesson changed his life. He was much happier than he can imagine.
Always have a smile on your face, whether you talk or not. It will increase your attractiveness and confidence. On the other side, it will decrease your blood pressure and stress to make your health better. It also feels safer and good to the person to whom you are talking.
A flooding smile doesn’t mean to smile instantly. Smile after giving a break; First look properly in eyes. Then smile slowly, it makes your smile more beautiful and efficient.