Personality : Improve and embrace it
We all have one but after reading this you’re going to have a better one.
Our personality is our typical pattern of thinking feeling acting and communicating.
The key term there is typical. your typical pattern of acting feeling thinking and communicating.
It’s what you do consistently not just like with one person or one group of people ah across the board as a whole.
What I want to do is think of somebody who you consider to have a great magnetic personality.
It’s pretty easy to do. Most of us can write these people are just radiating with personality right.
We feel better being around them but now if i asked you to tell me why?
What about their personality specifically makes them have a good personality that’s tougher to do right.
There are so many factors and variables that go into making up somebody’s individual personality.
The good news is that we had figured out what makes a good personality tick.
We kind of did so. Here’s the deal we can break down a good personality into traits.
If we work on developing these traits for ourselves we in the long run are going to have a better personality.
Who doesn’t want that. exactly! we all do let’s rock tip number
Be a better listener
Work on your active listening skills all right because communication is a skill.
Listening is also a skill right when you listen to somebody it’s not just your ears.
You’re just hearing the words coming out your whole body should be listening.
This means put your phone away. Eye contact not engage them. This is what I’m talking about in terms of being an active listener.
Who doesn’t like talking to somebody or being around somebody.
When you’re talking to him you think oh my god they’re actually listening.
Become more interesting
You can actually become more interesting how do you do that by engaging and actively seeking out education information.
Trying new things. The more stuff you try the more stuff you do the more information
You seek and absorb the more interesting you’re going to be for other people to communicate with.
Practice and adopt a more optimistic outlook on life
Optimism is sort of that glass is half-full type of thing. right!
Nobody likes being around somebody who’s pessimistic always talking about the negative.
Never looking at the good in anything right well.
This is something that you can absolutely change if you were persistently and consistently talking about negative things.
Acknowledge that you’re doing it and then work on developing a more positive outlook.
Sometimes simply look at things a little bit differently can make all the difference in the world.
Be encouraging and supportive to others
I want to be around these people there are people that are raising you up through positive energy.
These people fantastic personality is a lot of times some.
Have integrity and treat people with respect
Don’t talk bad about people don’t make fun of them : Be yourself
Don’t gossip people to make fun of other people are mean gossipers they just suck.
Don’t be afraid to be yourself. So often we get caught in this cycle of trying to please everybody.
Being something different in different social circles when you stop doing that and just decide that you know what this is me.
Take it or leave it. you’re going to lose some friends some people aren’t going to like you.
t’s okay the ones that are still there they’re going to be solved they’re going to be your friends and you’re going to find new ones.
These relationships and interactions are going to be far superior to the ones that you are putting up a facade in order to facilitate tip.
Have the ability to laugh at yourself : Develop your confidence
Until you actually have a secure sense of self and feel good about who you are and comfortable in your own skin
Do things that you need to do every day to facilitate and develop your confidence.
When you feel good about who you are the person. You see looking back at yourself in the mirror knowing that a i am a good person.
I bring value to the world and people around me.
Let me tell you something your personality is going to skyrocket it’s going to emanate.
It’s gonna be like a a death laser beam just going out because you’re going to be like oh I feel great about myself.
That is going to transition and transcend every aspect of your life including your personality.
Unfortunately we weren’t all born with dynamic radiant amazing engaging personality.
Some of us it just wasn’t in the cards were shy or for whatever reason.We just don’t let it shine when were around people.
If you implement and embrace and adopt these tips into your daily life your daily interactions you are well on your way to personality perfection.