How to Be More Confident in Yourself

Confidence is believing you when no one else does. lack of confidence is that insect which is eating u from inside every moment.

Confident appearance

Be presentable, and comfortable on what you are wearing. You always heard this that first impression is the last impression. So never let down yourself with abnormal appearance.

It doesn’t mean that you are now heading to the shopping complex and have planned to buy a dozen of clothes. Dress the way in which you feel high and best.

It happens that the smell of your mouth make u embarrassing and your whole confidence just shattered away. Shower daily, brush daily and make sure your mouth is not smelling after brushing, groom your skin and hair.

Be clean in thoughts as well in case of dressing. Wear the one in which you feel comfortable, be clean and feel good.


A good stance and posture reflect a proper state of mind -Morihei Ueshiba.

Have you ever think that how a person can communicate with each other without saying a word. Yes! It is the posture that tells others of what you are. Always present yourself confidently and for this keep your shoulders back, your spine straight and your chin high.

It is very irritating when you hear a sound of shoes dragging from one place to another. A bad impact is the only result. So never do that.

Look confident; it is the saying that fakes it till you make it. Eventually, you’ll start feeling confident if you know that you are looking confident.

Always Wear Your Smile

If you appear for an interview, you surely will dressed nicely have good body posture but what is faded is your smile. Stop worrying about what you have to lose and start focusing on what you will gain.

Stand strong, and it will enhance your confident. You not only able to attract others with just one grin but is also making yourself comfortable and low the level of stress.

Worried about the fake smile? Don’t be! have a small smile and make other feel comfortable with you too.

Use Your Eye Contact

The language of an eye is like a powerful weapon. Our eye language appear before we had speech. Apparently, 80% of what you understand in a conversation is read through the eye, not the words. in schools and college, you must have given presentation and projects.

What do you feel in which part you lack from others? Yes! It is the confidence of eye contact. Eye contact is the useful tool in convincing the audience of your honesty, openness and confidence in your presentation.

We all want to be famous and enhance our rapport with an audience. Establish eye contact with everyone, and definitely, you will achieve your goal.

Don’t be shy to meet the gaze of someone else; it shows that you are worth communicating with and you respect your listeners and is interested in conversation.

Body language

 60% of all human communication is non-verbal. Sometimes body language, 30% is your tone, so that means that 90% of what you are saying ain’t coming out of you. Sometimes happen that you start feeling bad about someone and will eventually conclude that the person is not worth talking. what makes you to do that?

You are unaware of the fact that it is the body language of the speaker, because it speaks the fact not audible. your body language shapes who you are.

Always open yourselves, you must have the habit of sitting with arms and leg crossed, but do you know what message it gives others, it shows that you are least interested in talking to others even if you dont have any thought like that. if you want others to approach you than make  yourself approachable.

Praise yourself

What happens when someone scolds you or disrespect you. You feel low and sad and as you think all your confidence will vanish. So! Never give a chance to others to let you down.

Always remember if you want your good image in others mind first you have to Photoshop your image in your mind. Always make your thoughts positive.

Recognise your talent and good qualities and write them down. Even if you are facing failure try to pat yourself to fought in the battle and for gaining experience. A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success. Never get despaired

parents always have the habit of comparing their child with others because they think that it might turn their child in competitive mode and their child start focusing on respective work but you don’t have any idea about the impact on a child after comparison.

They get sad, disheartened, sometimes depressed, they stop talking much and just sit at the corner so that no one can talk with them. Never compare yourselves or others with anyone else, and if you are doing this, you are insulting yourselves and others. Confidence matters a lot so always think of your good qualities, no one is perfect, at least you are trying and thinking about bettering yourself.


You can not learn without doing mistakes. count every mistake as the teacher and note down the obstacles that are keeping you away from becoming confident. mostly your reason are illogical and they are just assumption on your part, so always think about that. to understand this let us suppose you have failed in an interview and you are blaming your luck the dress you wore at that day and any other reason that makes no sense.

resulting low in confidence and depression for next interview. but ask yourself this: if you really put your efforts to clear the interview, study the respective subjects properly and have proper knowledge about the company in which you are appearing, would you do better?!

ofcourse the positive answer will click in your mind and you will definitely overcome the fear and then you don’t have any reason to not be confident.

Not God Gifted

You know the answer, but you have a fear of speaking in front of people or you might have a fear of the wrong answer? You are good at singing but could not give your registration form on a desk because of stage fear? In a group discussion, you have the valuable and logical fact but is unable to raise the voice? These all problems have been encountered by me at my time, and I am sure this will and can happen with you too.

The reason to all this problem is a lack of confidence. Confidence is rarely universal. All successful person have encountered this problem at a certain stage of life. You are not alone! No one is god gifted; everyone struggles with confidence. So never make excuses make an improvement.

Always remember that someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter; someone will always be younger, BUT THEY WILL NEVER BE YOU.

Start with you

Another person will only affect you when you are giving priority to their words. If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life. Stop being pity on yourself, this the worst enemy of yours so never yield to it or you will never be able to do anything good in the world.nobody can save you but yourself. Love yourself, for if you don’t, how can you expect anybody else to love you? Embrace who you are and don’t make any apologies for being yourself. Your life only gets better when you do. Work on yourself and the rest will follow you. Start loving you for everything you are and stop hating yourself for everything you aren’t. All this will feel yourself on to the top of the world.
Enhance the interest
In college days I always want to learn guitar, and I am pretty sure you guys must have the same love foe the guitar at that time. But just due to lack

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